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Do you want to make money?

Even as a teen you can make money, make it grow, and get what you want!

You’ve just turned thirteen-years-old, you are ready for independence, and you want to manage your own money. Or maybe you’re sixteen-years-old, and you already have a job, but you feel like you’re always broke and you want to know where all your money’s going.

You could be trying to save for college or maybe you’re even a parent and you want to find some good advice for your teenager and a good website to help them learn more about money management.

Or, you’re young and you just want to make some money. No matter what brought you here, you’ve come to the right place. We often hear on the news and read articles about how kids today don’t have the financial knowledge to make it in the world.

People are swimming in debt, and some are working 70 hours a week just to make ends meet. They think that making money is the only way to solve their finance problem when, in fact, it’s their money management skills that are hurting their finances.

As a teenager, you most likely don’t have any debt or even very much money experience at all. Now is the time to learn how to deal with money. The sooner you practice good financial techniques and really understand the value of money, the better off you’ll be in the future.

Even if all you want to do is make more money, here you will find out that by saving, budgeting, and investing, you can make money. Great money management skills will make you feel rich no matter how small your paycheck!

Flirting Tips

1. Smile:
It is contagious.
It will make you so much more approachable.
A smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You will be a people magnet.
2. Compliment:
Compliment your flirting partner. The best compliments have the element of surprise.
The "flirtee" will know that you really noticed them.
Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine.
When you receive a compliment the best response is merely, Thank You!
3. Eye contact:
Make eye contact, but please look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance away.
Don't stare it's a turn off.
4. Listen:
You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak.
Listening is a true art. Your flirting partner will be drawn to you.
Everyone loves to be heard.
5. Make the first move: Move closer to the person you want to meet.
Say hello!
6. Be the host:
Change your behavior from the role of guest to host.
You are not the passive person in waiting, but rather the welcome committee.
7. Use props:
Never leave home without a prop.
Props are natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others will be compelled to start talking to you.
Great props include: dogs, kids, unusual jewelry, a irresistable scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite passion or personalized Hoodie with your Rhinestone Initial or T-Shirt with your Rhinestone Initial ties, Guy's Personalized Sweatshirt hats, or an interesting book or newspaper.
8. Have fun:
Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous.
Show your vulnerability.
9. Start a conversation:
The best opening line is saying hello.
Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, state an opinion.
10. Flirting is an attitude:
A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks.
Be enthusiastic and positive, it works!

Teens vs Parents

Welcome to the year 2008 - where violence rules television, sex is played out through music and teens are lost struggling through these images.

Teens are dealing with so many things in this stage in their life. They need help choosing the right path. It only makes sense for the older generation to encourage and help today's generation, seeing as they have already experienced what modern teens are going through (to some extent, anyway).

Parents of 2008 have their hands full with protecting their kids from the pressures of the media, not to mention helping them make the decisions they face every day, with respect to their plans during and after high school. Guidance is so important at this stage, but some parents don't realize just how important it really is.

Teens versus their parents is an ongoing challenge, where teenage rebellion often leads to parents giving up. At this stage, teens want their parent or parents to feel they can trust them. They want to be treated with respect as a young adult, rather than a child. They want respect as a human being, like everyone else. But what parents might not know is, no matter how much their children rebel, they will always need someone talking them through things they can't handle themselves.

The teenage years are such a critical time in everyone's life. Teens are trying to understand themselves in these years, so when their parents offer their opinions, it means a lot, even if this sentiment is hidden. After all, no one knows each other better than family.

A strong relationship is imperative between a parent and a child. An encouraging parent can make the teenage years so much easier. Every teen needs someone to be there for them; no matter how miserable they get, they will need someone there to try to understand.

Teens versus parents is an ongoing problem - one that is probably without a cure. But just doing the little things, like asking how their day was, can mean the world. Children need the love of their parents, and, regardless of how well-hidden it may be, teens still love their parents. Regardless of how much rage and frustration is taken out on them, teens still need a nurturing family.

Is Oppositional Defiant Disorder seen in children below seven years of age and teenagers?

According to ICD-10 this type of conduct disorder is characteristically seen in children below the age of 9 or 10 years. All children are oppositional from time to time. They may argue, talk back, disobey and defy parents, teachers and other adults. This is a natural part of growing up. Children tend to be particularly oppositional when they are hungry, tired, stressed or upset. There are also times in a child's development when oppositional behavior is more common: between the age of 2-3 years old and teenagers. These are developmental stages when it is important that children can try their own will and they need to learn how to handle new and conflicting emotions.

What we can do for our children, when they go through these developmental stages, is to be good role models. We need to show our kids that there are ways to control your impulses. Show your child you understand his/her problem. Try to engage him/her into problem-solving, where you can express what you want and then try to find solutions which you both can accept. In time your child will grow up to be compassionate person in charge of his/her own emotions.

Because oppositional behavior is very common in pre-school children and teenagers one should be very cautious about making the diagnosis of ODD during these periods.

However, a child's inoperativeness's and hostile behavior becomes a serious concern when it is so frequent and so consistent that it stands out when compared to other children of the same age and developmental level and when it affects the child's social, family, and academic life.

In the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental disorders (DSM-IV) Oppositional Defiant Disorder, ODD, is described as a pattern of negativistic, defiant, disobedient and hostile behavior toward authority figures that persists for at least six months and is characterized by the frequent occurrence of at least four of the following:

• losing temper
• arguing with adults,
• actively defying or refusing to comply with the requests or rules of adults
• deliberately doing things that will annoy other people
• blaming others for his or her own mistakes or misbehaviour
• being touchy or easily annoyed by others
• being angry and resentful
• being spiteful or vindictive.

Parenting Your Teenager: Trust or Bust

It doesn't have to be all or nothing.

"Mom, can I go to the mall with my friend Jenny?"
No, not after you came home late last night.
Well everybody else gets to.
I don't care what everybody else gets to do, you can't
You just don't trust me
You've got to earn it
I have
no you haven't
have too
have not
SLAM!!! etc.

If the above conversation sounds familiar, you're probably the parent of a teenager. I especially love the "everybody else gets to do it" line. My parents response to that was "if everybody else stood on their head in the middle of the street at 3am in their underwear, would you?"

Probably would have.

I never understood what all that meant; but I do know that raising teenagers can be an extremely challenging task. I have a tremendous amount of respect for the parents of the teenagers I work with in my practice.

Now don't get me wrong. Most teenagers are pretty OK people. The vast majority seem to stay out of the juvenile justice system and eventually become adults. It's just that most of the teenagers I've worked with are 16 going on 26 and 16 going on 6, all at the same time.

There is a proverb that goes something like "raise a child in the way they should go and when they are old they won't depart from it". What that implies is at some point they are going to go away from it. Some families seem to go through the passage of the teen years with little or no struggle. Many other families find it one of the most challenging and at times, maddening stages for their family. Parents of teenagers really try hard to navigate these difficult waters. One of the areas that seem to be the most difficult for parents is the issue of trust. Let's take a closer look at how trust operates in families with teenagers, how it sometimes gets damaged, and how it can be built back.

A few families seem to go along and never have any problems with or damage done to the trust level for their kids. Others can really struggle with this issue. One of the places families tend to get stuck is seeing trust as an either/or situation. The teen lies, breaks curfew, experiments with drugs, or something equally trust damaging. The parents feel like they have lost all trust in their teen. The problem, or the "sticking point", here is how do you build the trust back from nothing? How do we set it up so kids can earn back trust? Viewing trust as a matter of degree can help create a map back to a trusting relationship.

Here's an example of building a map back to trust as well as creating the structure to earn trust back. Let's say the teen has broken curfew by a few hours. The first step is looking at trust on a scale of 1 to 10, 1 is the least amount of trust, 10 is the most. Let's say that coming home late reduced the trust level from a 9 down to a 3. That's a gap of 6 trust levels. Creating a map back to a high trust level will be difficult if you try to go from a three to a nine all at once. It's just too big a leap.

The next step is to talk about and agree on what changes and/or behaviors need to occur to go from a three level to a four level; then from a four to a five; a five to a six; and so on. In this way several positive structures are set up. The parents have a way of monitoring their teens progress and the teen has something to work toward. In addition, there's a built in incentive for the teen. In many families, trust is kind of like playing video games at the mall. In the video arcade, the more tokens you have, the more you can play. In much the same way, in families, the more trust you have, the more you can do.

At this stage many parents will ask "How do I know things are really different, that I'm not getting fooled?" That's an excellent question and the best answer I can offer is simply to watch and see if the behavior matches the words. If it does, you're on the right track. If the behavior doesn't match the words, then you know someone trying to pull the wool over your eyes.

Trust is a crucial element during the sometimes difficult time of the teen years. If damage to trust occurs, first, remember that this is a common, although serious, occurrence. Second, begin building the road back to a trusting relationship. If you find yourself still stuck along the road, it may be time to call in some outside help in order to get unstuck.

And one last thing - the teen years do come to an end, and if you are really lucky, you get to live long enough to watch your children have teenagers too!

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WHY MUST STOP SMOKING

Say NO To Smoking!!!

We are ready know that cigarette are very dangerous things. But why must we still smoking especially to teenagers. It is because, many of teenagers be of the opinion that their parents or the adult group still health, although their smoking.
In Malaysia, the price for a box of Dunhill 20's, Marlboro 20's & Peter Styvensen 20's is RM8.20. Price for Pall Mall 20's & Winston 20's is RM6.90. Is it cheap?? Now, we calculate the money that we need to buy it. Majority teens in Malaysia will smoke cigarette in 20's box for only 4 days. Let say, if me only smoke the Pall Mall or Wiston brands, i needs to spent RM51.75 month! [30 days /4 days] x RM6.90. It is the example calculation if me smokes the Pall Mall 0r Winston brands! How about others teens that smokes the Dunhill, Marlboro or Peter Styvensen brands and can smoke for a 20's box in less than 4 days! Why must we spent money for shorting our life. We can use the money to buy petrol, because its very expensive..

What Are The Dangerous Effects Of Drug Use In Teens?

Just a few of the many dangerous effects of drug use in adolescents include:

• Drugs of any kind decreases teens' ability to pay attention.
• The younger a person is when they begin using drugs the more likely they are to develop a substance-abuse problem and the more likely they are to relapse into drug abuse when trying to quit.
• Juveniles who use drugs are more likely to have unprotected sex, sex with a stranger, as well as to engage in sexual activity at all.
• Substance use can cause or mask other emotional problems, like anxiety, depression, mood swings, or hallucinations (for example, hearing or seeing things). Either of those illnesses can result in death by suicide or homicide.
• Anabolic steroids have been associated with impotence in boys and men, clitoral enlargement in girls and women, as well as baldness, stunted Growth heart attacks, strokes, liver disease, cancer, acne and infections, including HIV/AIDS in both sexes.
• Depending on how the body takes in and processes each kind of drug, substances of abuse can affect virtually every one of the body's systems.
  

Examples of this include permanent brain damage associated with inhalants, heart attack or stroke from stimulants, halted breathing from sedatives.
Any of these problems can result in death.

SOURCE: http://www.medicinenet.com

Drugs Are Part of a Teen's Everyday Life

Drugs Are Part of a Teen's Everyday Life

Today's teens face more challenges and temptations than any other generation has. More is expected from them in their schooling- their course loads are bigger with more required curriculum. There are new drugs and forms of drugs that are easily and readily accessible. Alcohol is popular as ever and more teens are sexually active. Peer pressure is a constant strain and influence on their choices. Relationships with parents and siblings are vitally important and have a strong pull in decision making.

Drugs play more of a role in a teenager's attitude, schooling and health than most parents realize. Drugs are becoming more and more accessible to teenagers everyday. TeenDrugAbuse.net is dedicated to informing parents about these drugs and also helping them help their teen by offering treatment centers and alternatives to public schooling.

Common Drugs Among Teens
Ecstasy - Across the country, teens and young adults enjoy all-night dance parties known as "raves" and increasingly encounter more than just music. Dangerous substances known collectively as club drugs, including Ecstasy are gaining popul ....

Marijuana - Marijuana is the most widely used illicit drug among America's youth today, according to the 2001 National Household Survey on Drug Abuse, and kids are smoking it at a younger age than ever before. Moreover, the strength of the d ....

Alcohol - For young people, alcohol is the number one drug of choice. In fact, teens use alcohol more frequently and heavily than all other illicit drugs combined. Although most children under age 14 have not yet begun to drink, early ado ....

More at http://www.teendrugabuse.com

FRIENDS LANGUAGE

FRIENDS in different language are:-

• Hindi -> Dosth


• German -> Freund


• Hebrew -> Chaver


• French -> Ami


• Pinoy -> Kaibigan


• Dutch -> Vrend


• Mexican -> Amigo


• Tamil -> Thozi


• Malay -> Kawan

FIND FRIENDS

Long time ago, we were supried with born of FRIENDSTER. The function is to finds more friends from internet. So, we can find our friends and new friends also. Through the friendster, we can customize or manage our layout, applications and more. We also can join certain group that someone build or we build our group. Then, another website comes with new name but the function are near same with Friedster, it is MYSPACE. We also can finds more friends with it. But in my opinion, myspace are boring. But sometimes people said they like using myspace because they can know their friends that online.The newest website is FACEBOOK, its more funky. It is because many artist or another glamour people are there. Very easy too to find them than using myspace and friendster. We can comment them without visit thier profile. In my opinion, I suggest you all using all. Every website has thier own style..

SAVE SEX FOR TEENAGERS

Everybody's Doing It. Aren't They?
It may seem like everyone you know is having sex, but aside from a few boasts in the locker room there's no real way to prove this। What we do know is the number of teens seeking medical care for sexually transmitted infections - and this number is skyrocketing. Over 40,000 British teens seek care for STIs each year, which means that significant numbers of teens are having sex, and unfortunately they are not practicing safer sex every time.

Safer Sex, Better Health
"Safer sex" is often considered a great idea, but hard to adhere to in the heat of the moment। Safer sex is the practice by which you reduce contact with your partners' bodily fluids during sexual activity, which will help reduce the risk of exchanging sexually transmitted infections. If you love yourself, and you are mature enough to have sex, then you must be sure to protect yourself and offer no alternative but to have safer sex.

Remember to:
>Openly discuss your sexual histories with potential partners.
>Make a date to be tested for STIs with your partner before having sex.
>Use a condom every time you consider sex of any type.
>Use a condom even if you or your girlfriend is using another means of contraception because the pill, patch and various other methods do not protect against satis.
>Consider combining spermicide with a condom to further protect against unplanned pregnancies.
>Never have sex if you feel unprepared or uncomfortable।

Alternatives to Sex
Don't be fooled by schoolyard rumours, oral, vaginal and anal sex are all "real" sex. There are, however, many alternatives you can engage in if you feel unready or unwilling to "go all the way." Almost anyone can derive pleasure from:
>Kissing.
>Petting/stroking.
>Masturbation.
>Stimulating a partner with their hands.
>Simulating sex while fully clothed।

The First Time
Even when you know the facts and are prepared to protect yourself, the first time you decide to have sex can be a very emotional, confusing event. Losing your virginity is momentous, one that you will literally remember for the rest of your life. Don't waste this beautiful moment by just "getting it over with." Wait until you feel right and you trust your partner, that way your first time truly will be magical.
Teen sex is a subject that scares the daylights out of most people. Adults hyperventilate about STIs and unplanned pregnancies, and teens pick up on this tension. The government also legislates on the topic of teen sex, and it is technically illegal for a girl under the age of 16 to have sex. If you are obeying the law and feel ready to take this big step, then make sure you know the facts, you protect yourself and you feel right. Don't disrespect yourself, or your partner, by settling for anything less.

Source:http://www.teenissues.co.uk/

teen smoking: 10 ways to help teens stay smoke-free

Teen smoking can become a lifelong habit. Help your teen resist that first puff. Here's how.
Teen smoking might begin innocently enough, but it can become a lifelong habit. In fact, most adult smokers began smoking as teenagers. Your best bet? Help your teen resist taking that first puff. These 10 tips can help.
1. Understand the attraction. Sometimes teen smoking is a form of rebellion or a way to fit in with a particular group of friends. Some teens light up in an attempt to lose weight or to feel better about themselves. Others smoke to feel cool or independent. To know what you're dealing with, ask your teen how he or she feels about smoking. Ask which of your teen's friends smoke. Applaud your teen's good choices, and talk about the consequences of bad choices.
2. Say no to teen smoking. You may feel as if your teen doesn't hear a word you say, but say it anyway. Tell your teen that smoking isn't allowed. Your disapproval may have more impact than you think. In one study, teens who thought their parents would disapprove of them smoking were less than half as likely to smoke as those who thought their parents wouldn't care.
3. Set a good example. Teen smoking is more common among teens whose parents smoke. If you don't smoke, keep it up. If you do smoke, quit — now. Ask your doctor about stop-smoking products and other ways to quit smoking. In the meantime, don't smoke in the house, in the car or in front of your teen, and don't leave cigarettes where your teen might find them. Explain how unhappy you are with your smoking and how difficult it is to quit.
4. Appeal to your teen's vanity. Smoking isn't glamorous. Remind your teen that smoking is a dirty, smelly habit. Smoking gives you bad breath. Smoking makes your clothes and hair smell, and it turns your teeth yellow. Smoking can leave you with a chronic cough and less energy for sports and other activities you enjoy.
5. Do the math. Smoking is expensive. Help your teen calculate the weekly, monthly or yearly cost of a pack-a-day smoking habit. You might compare the cost of smoking with electronic gadgets, clothes or other teen essentials.
6. Expect peer pressure. Friends who smoke can be convincing — but you can give your teen the tools he or she needs to refuse cigarettes. Rehearse how to handle tough social situations. It might be as simple as, "No thanks, I don't smoke." The more your teen practices this basic refusal, the more likely he or she will say no at the moment of truth.
7. Take addiction seriously. Most teens believe they can quit smoking anytime they want. But teens become just as addicted to nicotine as do adults, often quickly and at relatively low doses of nicotine. And once you're hooked, it's tough to quit. Consider this: Of adolescents who've smoked at least 100 cigarettes, the American Lung Association reports that most would like to quit but are unable to do so.
8. Predict the future. Teens tend to assume that bad things only happen to other people. But the long-term consequences of smoking — such as cancer, heart attack and stroke — may be all too real when your teen becomes an adult. Use loved ones, friends or neighbors who've been ill as real-life examples.
9. Think beyond cigarettes. Smokeless tobacco, clove cigarettes (kreteks) and candy-flavored cigarettes (bidis) are sometimes mistaken as less harmful or addictive than traditional cigarettes. Hookah smoking — smoking tobacco through a water pipe — is another alternative sometimes touted as safe. Don't let your teen be fooled. Like traditional cigarettes, these products are addictive and can cause cancer and other health problems. Many deliver higher concentrations of nicotine, carbon monoxide and tar than do traditional cigarettes.
10. Get involved. Take an active stance against teen smoking. Participate in local and school-sponsored anti-smoking campaigns. Support bans on smoking in public places.
If your teen has already started smoking, avoid threats and ultimatums. Instead, be supportive. Find out why your teen is smoking — and then discuss ways to help your teen stop smoking, such as hanging out with friends who don't smoke or getting involved in new activities. Stopping teen smoking in its tracks is the best thing your teen can do for a lifetime of good health.
source: http://www.mayoclinic.com/

35 RULES OF LIFE!!!

1. Never, under any circumstances, take a sleeping pill and a laxative on the same night.

2. Don't worry about what people think, they don't do it very often.

3. Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity.

4. If you must choose between two evils, pick the one you've never tried before.

5. My idea of housework is to sweep the room with a glance.

6. Not one shred of evidence supports the notion that life is serious.

7. A person who is nice to you but rude to the waiter, is not a nice person.

8. For every action, there is an equal and opposite government program.

9. If you look like your passport picture, you probably need the trip.

10. Bills travel through the mail at twice the speed of checks.

11. A conscience is what hurts when all of your other parts feel so good.

12. Eat well, stay fit, die anyway.

13. Men are from earth. Women are from earth. Deal with it.

14. No man has ever been shot while doing the dishes.

15. A balanced diet is a muffin in each hand.

16. Middle age is when broadness of the mind and narrowness of the waist change places.

17. Opportunities always look bigger going than coming.

18. Junk is something you've kept for years and throw away three weeks before you need it.

19. There is always one more imbecile than you counted on.

20. Experience is a wonderful thing. It enables you to recognize a mistake when you make it again.

21. By the time you can make ends meet, they move the ends.

22. Thou shalt not weigh more than thy refrigerator.

23. Someone who thinks logically provides nice contrast to the real world.

24. It ain't the jeans that make your butt look fat.

25. If you had to identify in one word, the reason why the human race has not achieved it's full potential, that word would be "meetings."

26. There is a very fine line between "hobby" and "mental illness."

27. People who want to share their religious views with you almost never want you to share yours with them.

28. You should not confuse your career with your life.

29. Nobody cares if you can't dance well. Just get up and dance.

30. Never lick a steak knife.

31. The most destructive force in the universe is gossip.

32. You will never find anybody who can give you a clear and compelling reason why we observe daylight savings time.

33. You should never say anything to a woman that even remotely suggests that you think she's pregnant unless you can see an actual baby emerging from her at that moment.

34. The one thing that unites all human beings, regardless of age, gender, religion, economic status or ethnic background, is that deep down inside we ALL believe we are good drivers.

35. Your friends love you anyway.

REMAJA & KONFLIKS

CABARAN REMAJA
Perubahan-perubahan fizikal, emosi dan social semasa remaja memberi kesan terhadap kesihatan mental.
Masalah-Masalah Yang Sering Dihadapi Remaja
> Keliru dengan peranan dan tanggungjawab diri
> Sering merasa diri disalahfahamkan dan dipersalahkan
> Merasa diri dilayan secara tidak adil
> Kesunyian
> Sukar memahami emosi
> Susah membuat keputusan
Hubungan Dengan IbuBapa
Remaja yang mempunyai hubungan baik dengan ibubapa mereka sering menjalin perhubungan yang mesra dengan orang lain. Mereka juga kurang mengalami masalah kesihatan mental.
Cara-Cara Menjalin Perhubungan Yang Lebih Rapat Dengan IbuBapa
> Menghormati dan sedia meneriam tunjuk-ajar dan teguran mereka
> Membincangkan masalah anda dengan mereka
> Meluahkan perasaan dan pendapat anda secata terus terang
> Tunjukkan kasih sayang anda melalui kata-kata ataupun perbuatan
> Cuba memahami masalah dan beban ibubapa anda
> Meraikan harijadi mereka
> Ingatlah bahawa ibubapa menyayangi anda dan mahukan yang terbaik untuk anda
MENANGANI EMOSI
Keupayaan memahami emosi adalah penting di dalam kehidupan harian
Apabila Anda Merasa Marah
>Tarik nafas sedalam-dalamnya. Beredar dari suasana tegang (jika perlu)
> Berfikir sebelum bertindak
> Tanya diri sendiri
--> Kenapa saya marah ?
--> Apalah punca masalah ?
--> Apakah yang telah saya lakukan ?
PENYELESAIAN KONFLIK
> Kenalpasti punca konflik
> Dengan dulu apa yang hendak disampaikan oleh orang lain
> Nyatakan apa yang anda kehendaki dan mengapa anda marah
> Janganlah menyalahkan orang lain
> Tumpukan perhatian kepada tindakan yang menyebabkan konflik
> Bertenang semasa menerangkan pendapat anda
>Bincangkan bersama cara-cara penyelesaian masalah
Remaja yang Positif
> Bertimbang rasa
> Yakin terhadap diri sendiri
> Sedia menerima nasihat dan teguran
> Sabar
> Bertanggungjawab
> Rajin dan suka menolong
> Mahir berkomunikasi

PUNKS.GOTH.EMO

Isn't it funny that when you go to the shops with your friends you look down at the person with black jeans and studs but smile at the girl wearing a mini with a t-shirt that barely covers anything?


Isn't it funny you can change your music taste to impress a guy but when it comes to a guy who likes his own music and his own style, you give him a mouthful?


Isn't it funny that a guy can get away with being gangster but the emo gets mouthful from everyone?


Isn't it funny an emo can be quiet all through the week but gets more [censored] from everyone than the girl who sleeps around and sells her virginity?


Isn't it funny that you don't mind your friends drinking, smoking but the minute someone mentions emo music you can give them a lecture on melodramatic teenage outcast?





Its not funny that you and your friends can make a girls life hell and not know anything about the silent battle she might be fighting.


Isn't it funny that you can call emos, punks, goths the retards but still manage to get through your day without an inch of guilty in your heart.





HOWEVER YOU CAN CALL A PERSON A POSER, HOW CAN YOU SAY "YOUR NOT EMO" OR "ATTENTION SEEKER" WITHOUT SPENDING A SECOND TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHY THERE ARE CUTS ON THEIR WRIST AND WHY THEY SPENDS HER LUNCHTIMES INSTEAD OR LAUGHING WITH HER FRIENDS


keep on laughing


Isn't funny you can say and do all this without any idea of what is going on in this person life without knowing her situation with her friends or her family or her LIFE


BRAVE ISN'T GOING UP ON STAGE AND STRIPPING


BRAVE ISN'T SAYING A SPEECH


OR DUMPING YOUR BOYFRIEND


BRAVE IS


GOING TO SCHOOL ON MUFTI DAY AND NOT FOR A SECOND CARE WHAT THE WHORES AROUND YOU ARE SAYING ABOUT YOUR CLOTHES


ITS LISTENING TO YOUR OWN MUSIC AND BEING PROUD OF IT


ITS GOING THROUGH EVERYDAY WITH THE THINGS PEOPLE SAY TO YOUR FACE BEHIND YOUR BACK AND YOU STILL KEEP QUIET


ITS KNOWING WHAT YOUR "FRIENDS" ARE SAYING ABOUT YOU AND STILL CALLING THEM YOUR FRIENDS


BRAVE IS KNOWING THAT TOMORROW ISN'T A BRIGHT AN HAPPY FUTURE


ITS ANOTHER DAY OF BITCHING AND DODGING RUMORS

BEST ABOUT WOMEN

Women have strengths that amaze men.

They bear hardships and they carry burdens,

but they hold happiness, love and joy.

They smile when they want to scream.

They sing when they want to cry.

They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous.

They fight for what they belive in.

They stand up to injustice.

They don't take 'no' for an answer when they belive there is a better solution.

They go without so their family can have.

They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.

They love unconditionally.

They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards.

They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding.

Their hearts break when a friend dies.

They grieve at the lost of afamily member,

yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.

They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart.

Women come in all shapes, sizes and colours.

They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you.

The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning.

They bring joy, hope and love.

They have compassion and ideas.

They give moral support to their family and friends.

Women have vital things to say and everything to give.

HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN,

IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.

THE GOOD HUSBAND'S GUIDE

1. 1. Come home early from work everyday and have dinner waiting on her. bcoz you know she has worked twice as hard as you, bcoz we all know women have all the brains.


2. 2. Always let her have a couple of hours to her self every night. While you clean up the house of her.


3. Always greet her with open arms and a big kiss. Bcoz her day was much more exhausting than yours.


4. When it is payday, cash our check and givi everything to her, bcoz you know she deserves it more than you do.


5. In the mornings, get up and make her a coffee and have everything ready for her b4 you leave for work, including laying her clothes 4 her, warming up her car, etc.


6. On the weekends, clean the house, do the laundry, and do all the dishes and let her relax all day watching her favourite movies and eating her favourite ice-cream.


7. Every night give all the children their bath's and get them to bed while your wife relaxes from a hard day's work.


8. Listen to her every word. Do not ever ignore anything she says, bcoz you wife is a very smart and wise person and should never be ignored.


9. Try to massage her feet and back as much as possible while she enjoys her favourite drink that you have fixed for her.


10. Don't ever question her if you disagree with something, bcoz you know that she is always right.


11. A smart husband knows his place by keeping his mouth shut and doing everything the wife says.

JTI will produce in Russian super Slims Winston cigarettees.
JTI decides to follow the lead of the competitors and start manufacturing yhe super slims version of the most vendors of cigarettes in Russian-Winston cigarettes. Previously, Philip Morris began to produce slims LM and BAT -Pall Mall.

So, writes the newspaper "Business men" Winston Super Slims at the factory "JTI-Pedro" in Sank Petersburg will be several rubles more than for classic Winston. Super slims varities will be offered in 3 sorts:light,super and light menthol.

"Super Slims" is the most fast-developing segment of tobacco market, which according to AC Nielsen has increased since 2004 to 2006 for 5 times and with 5 percent"-says the manager.

Winston is the most market cigarettes brand in Russia and it produced in country since February 2000. According to AC Nielsen, in January 2007 Winston cigarettes occupied 8.7% of Russia market place and after it was LM with 5.2%.

JTI isn't the first company that decided to produce Super Slim Cigarettes in Russia. In April 2006, Philip Morris began to get on shelves in Russia super slims Muratti Ambassador.

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• Freindship is not how you forget but how u forgive not how you listen but how you understand not what you see but how you feel and not how you let go but how you hold on..


• Indahnya perkenalan jika bersulamkan keikhlasan,
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